First Event and TCNE would like to send a GREAT BIG THANK YOU out to Dr. Toby Meltzer, M.D., for his continued support for First Event! We truly appreciate your helping to make First Event possible! Visit him at this link to say “THANKS” Toby R. Meltzer, MD, PC, Plastic and Reconstructive Surgery.
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It’s the final hour before you leave the house for First Event 2016
You’re juggling a dual game of “Beat the Clock” and “Check Off the Pack List.”
While staring at your stuffed suitcase, you ask yourself, ‘Is there anything else I have to bring?’
Enter. . .the jolt of memory jog.
‘Wait, wait. . .the hair! I can’t forget the hair!’
No, you cannot forget the hair. A complete look includes a dazzling ‘do!
So how do you bundle your cherished “girls” while keeping them intact, protected and sitting pretty while you jet-set?
Here are ten in-transit tips to globe-trot with:
1) Zip It Good. Keep all liquids/creams in their own SEALED or zipped bags. Most likely you packed these in the stowed away luggage to dodge the TSA hassle. If they are banked in the same baggage as your wig, seal them in a zip-lock bag. You don’t need a liquid leak or product explosion all over your awesome tresses.
2) Static Free. Spray a little Static Guard into the box (BEFORE adding the wig) to eliminate the dreaded suspended hairs.
3) Sock It. Roll a couple CLEAN pairs of socks and place along the inside cap crown. This gives the hairstyle a rounded shape while stored (and saves packing space :).
4) Net n’ Fold. Cover the locks with a hairnet (top to bottom). Fold and roll the length of the hair, into the inside of the cap. Place on it’s side.
5) Wig in a Box. It’s an easy last minute method–cramma-jammin’ your hair in a plastic grocery bag and squeezing it into the carry-on. Take time to pack your weave in a shoe box or the box from the manufacturer. If it’s going into the large luggage, pack it first so you have clothing ONLY stacked on top of it. The clothing provides cushion without being too heavy (if you’re not crushing it). The box allows your mane to keep it’s shape.
6) Hotel Hangin’. Use the hotel coat hangers (if you forgot a portable wig stand). This overlooked tool allows you to wash your weave at night and link the hook through a weft or strap. Hang in the shower to drip/dry overnight. This passes a flow-through of air to dry the cap. These are easy to flop your fibers on at the end of the day. The wig will be fine draping upside down overnight.
7) Carry-On. Warm weather makes the plane quite toasty. Box and bring your wig in the carry-on bag. Checked bag storage is hot during the summer months. Constant heat shortens the life of human and synthetic hair fiber.
8) Be Up Front. Let your “girl” ride passenger during those long distance summer jaunts. She will prefer the air conditioning versus the stuffy, hot trunk. Again, lingering heat wears down human and synthetic strands.
9) Cool Comfort. Tote your tresses into the refreshingly cool A/C of your hotel room during those summer sleepovers. Sweltering summer temperatures damage your wiggy wefts.
10) Ready-to-Go. Have your wig cleaned, de-matted (if necessary) and styled BEFORE your trip (especially if it’s synthetic). This saves styling time which means MORE time outside, enjoying your vacation.
Now you are armed and set to conquer that loaded luggage and arrive to any destination ready-to-wear, your perfectly coiffed hair. Happy trails and tresses!
[This article courtesy of I’m Hot Studio in Amesbury MA)
First Event and TCNE would like to give a LOUD SHOUT OUT THANK YOU to Harvard Pilgrim Health Plan for their support for First Event Transgender Conference! We truly appreciate your helping to make First Event possible! Visit Harverd Pilgrim at this link to say “THANKS” Harvard Pilgrim Health Plan.
Naming ceremonies are special times. According to Wikipedia a naming ceremony is:
“A naming ceremony is the event at which an infant, a youth, or an adult is given a name or names. The timing can vary from mere days after birth to several months or many years afterwards. Some of these ceremonies have religious or cultural significance.”
Our names are important and have significance and at First Event we want to honor YOUR name with a naming ceremony.
Our ceremony is being led by Riley Chattin, an Anglican with encounters in Buddhist, Jewish Mysticism, Wiccan, Pagan and Hindu practices. In 2014, after receiving training during a Clinical Pastoral Education unit, I began serving as a Spiritual Director.
There are many ways that different spiritualities honor names and the journey to accompany them. To continue with honoring our path and honoring all parts of our life, a name anointing ceremony can be done for and by anyone. It is a ceremony of honor and respect. It can also make our name and path our own.
In looking in history and back at other cultures who have used name anointing ceremonies, it often is after a vision quest or something similar. The journey we have as transgender and genderqueer individuals is not unlike a vision quest. However, the fact that we enter into a place of self discovery and self actualization we can use the process of transition to continually strive to transition into a more evolved self.
One of the ways to honor and embrace our self evolution is to anoint our name as our own and honor our journey. In that we are accepting our path and striving to seek the most out of our lives. Before continuing to the ceremonial part, for those who wish to be anointed and those who want to provide support there will be a question and answer. Each person will be given a piece of paper to write their name on it as they want to be anointed. On the back to write their birth name and three positive qualities they want to carry on with them in life. That will remain private as they hold up the paper, only showing the name they are anointing for everyone to see, so each participant can also see their good qualities. Then there will be a responsive reading before each anointing. Each individual anointing their name will be anointed using water and Frankincense oil. Then a closing of the ceremony.
Join us at First Event Transgender Conference, Thursday January 21, at 2:30PM to honor yourself and your journey! Click here to read more on the Thursday Schedule.
In so many cases the non-transgender partners and spouses of transgender men and women are left in the dark as their wife, husband or partner starts to understand and then embrace their own truth on being transgender. It doesn’t matter if the transgender partner is part-time, full-time or some-time – their partner, whether straight, bi, gay or lesbian is often wondering:
- What is going on?
- Why is this happening now?
- What will happen to me?
- What will happen to our kids?
- What will happen to us – what happened to the love of my life?
There’s alot of questions and First Event 2016 has some help in store
with our PiP Program: Partners in Process.
Whether you are married or partnered to an FtM, MtF, be they
crossdressers, transexual or genderqueer, TCNE’s Partners in Process
Program is designed to help you get answers to your questions, find
resources to help, build friendships to encourage you, hear you, and make sure you know – you are NOT alone!
There is no additional fee for PiP, it’s a part of First Event and it is
only for the partners of trans-persons.
Here are some of the great programs part of PIP this year at First Event
Thursday January 21 (click for more info on firstevent.org)
09:00AM PIP Spouse Meet and Greet
10:00AM Spouse Sanctuary (10am – 4pm)
01:00PM Spouse Only Support Group
Friday January 22 (click for more info on firstevent.org)
10:00AM Relationships with Family & Friends – Spouse only support group
10:00AM Spouse Sanctuary (10 am – 4 pm)
11:30AM Outside Appearances and Inner Realities – Spouse Only Support
01:00PM Guilt, Shame, and Fear: Confronting the Emotional Legacy of
02:30PM Lipstick Wars, Wives of Crossdressers – Spouse only support
04:00PM New Directions and Lifestyle Decisions: Asexual, Divorce,
Polyamory, and Others
Saturday January 23 (click for more info on firstevent.org)
10:00AM OMG, My partner is Trans, Now what? – Spouse only support
10:00AM Spouse Sanctuary (10 am – 4 pm)
10:00AM Still Crazy after all these years, Longtime Spouse support
group – Spouses only support
11:30AM The Political is Personal: Lesbian Partners of TMs support
group – Spouse only support
01:00PM Issues with Trans Couples: Terms of Endearment – PIP
02:30PM Couples on Intimacy: Where Do We Go from Here? – PIP
03:00PM PiP Tea
04:00PM Couples on Intimacy (continues) – (PiP)
You can register at the links above at http://www.firstevent.org or
please contact us at email@example.com
Attorney General Maura Healy and Dr. Renee McLaughlin, Headline Speakers at 36th Annual First Event Transgender Conference
FOR IMMEDIATE RELEASE
Contact: Grace Stevens
First Event Transgender Conference
Waltham, MA (January 2016) – Massachusetts Attorney General Maura Healey will be one of the keynote speakers at the Transgender Conference, First Event 2016. Ms. Healey will be among the many speakers, workshop leaders, and events at the conference. The conference, in its 36th year, is being held January 20th to the 24th, 2016, at the Westin Hotel, Waltham MA, just outside of Boston.
The conference kicks off Thursday with a special Therapist Training Program. This professional training focuses on advancing clinical competencies, knowledge and critical skills for beginning and advanced gender specialists. CEU’s will be offered and are pending for LCSW, LICSW, LMHC, LMFT.
Thursday evening will see the Black Tie Formal Affair, the major evening kickoff event for First Event 2016. During the evening First Event will recognize two prominent members of the transgender community with TCNE’s Annual Community Service Award: Nancy Nangeroni and Anderson Clark.
Maura Healey will speak at First Event’s Friday Evening conference dinner and fashion show. Ms. Healey is an advocate for transgender rights, having supported the 2011 “An Act Relative to Gender Identity”. Recently she testified in support of current legislation under consideration to protect transgender people in places of public accommodation.
On Saturday evening, at the Francis Cardullo Memorial Banquet, Dr. Renee McLaughlin, M.D., FACS, Senior Medical Director CIGNA Health Care, will be speaking. Dr. McLaughlin served in the United States Army during the first Gulf war. She is on the leadership team for Cigna’s LGBT colleague resource group and is an internal and external resource on transgender-related issues.
Thursday through Sunday there will be over 180 workshops, addressing the various medical, psychological and lifestyle needs of transgender people from children, to teens, to young adults, older adults and families. Topics covered will include:
– Support for men and women whose partner is transgender
– Children, Youth and Family topics
– Transmasculine, FtM workshops
– Topics related to transitioning at work and in one’s profession
– Medical considerations for transgender people
– Many more topics covering the spectrum for the transgender community and those who may be connected to it.
This year First Event welcomes the largest set of corporate sponsors in the event’s history including:
– Harvard Pilgrim Health Care
– Eastern Bank
– CeltiCare Health
– Cigna Health
– nd many more, including world renown surgeons and medical professionals in transgender healthcare
First Event 2016 is being held at the Westin Hotel, Waltham MA. For more information please visit http://www.firstevent.org or email firstname.lastname@example.org
About First Event
Now in its 36th year, First Event is one of the world’s largest and leading conferences for the transgender community and their allies. First Event features workshops from some of the world’s leading medical professionals, educators, and therapists. The conference provides a venue for education and networking for the entire transgender community.
First Event and TCNE would like to send a SHOUT OUT OF THANK YOU to Dr. Jeffrey Spiegel for his continued support for First Event! We truly appreciate your helping to make First Event possible! Visit him at this link to his Chestnut Hill Office to say “THANKS” Dr. Jeffrey Spiegel, M.D.
First Event On Line Registration Ends Midnight Friday, Hotel Rooms Almost Sold Out, Evening Events Close to Sold Out
Registration for First Event 2016 Transgender Conference is in full swing! If you’ve been part of our Facebook Group or Facebook Page, following our posts on First Event here at TCNE or simply staying plugged into the FE16 Website you know there is a ton of great stuff going on. So here’s a quick run down on some very important new information on First Event hotels, online registration and finally costs for dinner events if you purchase at the door.
- First Event On-Line Registration will end MIDNIGHT 1/15/16. The team needs time to pull the registrations together and print the badges for #FE16. You will still be able to register in person at First Event the day you arrive.
- Our block of hotel rooms is almost sold out. If you are having any issues with reserving a room please contact Andrea at email@example.com
- Our evening events on Thursday, Friday and Saturday are loads of fun but we encourage you to book them online by Friday, 1/15/16. The price is $65 when booked online but is $75 if booked onsite at First Event IF tickets are still available.
When you visit the first event schdule you’ll see at the very top a series of abbreviations. These abbreviations, when clicked will allow you to see a smaller set of workshops and activities.
For example, if you click I/C you’ll be quickly brought to the workshops for Individuals and Couples; If you click on TM you’ll be brought to all the Transmasculine workshops for that day. With over 178 workshops this year, we wanted to make finding the courses you want as simple as possible.
Click the following image to make it twice the size:
To see a quick demo of this feature, just click this link to see a 1:30 how to video
First Event and TCNE would like to send a WICKED BIG THANK YOU to Dr. Sherman Leis for his continued support for First Event! We truly appreciate your helping to make First Event possible! Visit him at this link to say “THANKS” The Center for Plastic and Reconstructive Surgery